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Article: How can men confidently shop for lingerie for their partners?

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How can men confidently shop for lingerie for their partners?

From Expert: Stela

One of my favorite fittings involved a gentleman looking for something special from Bordelle. He shared that he had recently purchased a Bordelle dress for his partner, but the fit wasn’t quite right. Because I knew the exact style he was describing, I pulled our current Bordelle collection and walked him through the pieces that would best complement his partner’s body shape and size.

Together, we explored the details that make Bordelle lingerie so extraordinary, from the luxurious elastic straps to the gold hardware and the adjustable fit that flatters a wide range of silhouettes. We compared styles and discussed the difference in fit between bodysuits, bras, and harnesses so that he could feel confident choosing the right size and style.

By the end of our time together, he left with a carefully selected piece that reflected both his partner’s personality and the brand’s signature bold elegance. Shopping for lingerie can feel intimidating at first, but with guidance from a lingerie expert, it becomes an experience filled with intention, confidence, and connection.

Expert Tip: When shopping for your partner, bring inspiration photos or reference brands and pieces they already love. Lingerie is as personal as fragrance, and getting the fit, texture, and mood right makes all the difference.

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