Though we love the big gesture (you know, the standing outside the window holding the boombox, the driving through the night to surprise us, the watching of "Girls"), we also love understated, quiet, passions. The kind that takes a minute to hit you, a subtle, slow-moving heat that is pure in its loveliness. This delicate, pale-pink lace demi, with its large ladylike bow, delicate double straps, gem detail, and stunning silhouette is that kind of passion. Watch out, it sneaks up on you. In the best possible way.